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7 Moments … That Define Excellent Leaders

August 19, 10 by nschoychid
 
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Hi Friends…We want it, we need it, we work hard to get it. The “it” is SUCCESS – a wonderful thing that showers us with untold benefits. But along with those benefits comes one potential negative that can diminish our ability to stay successful: COMFORT!The scenario is all too familiar (and natural): We want to savor our success, so we’re tempted to slow down … just a little; we let our focus slip … just a little; we start to play it safe … just a little. Examples abound in the world of sports. How many times have we seen teams lose their momentum and then lose the game because instead of playing to win, they began playing not to lose? They get ahead and then stop playing with the intensity that earned them the lead.The same temptation can trap leaders. As we exceed expectations and hit our targets, it appears our team is cruising for its best year ever. It feels good. We get comfortable. And we find that our focus has shifted from gaining ground to merely sustaining it. Eventually we lose the momentum that got us where we are and we find that we aren’t “there” any more.

How can we avoid this all-too-human tendency? Lee Colan provides several clues in his truly inspiring book 7 Moments … That Define Excellent Leaders. Excerpted below are a few of his suggestions to help ensure that we keep earning laurels rather than resting on those we already have.

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Excerpts from 7 Moments … That Define Excellent Leaders
  • Find delight in your own discomfort. The way to keep your momentum is to actually seek discomfort – especially that which comes with change. This does not mean you are never satisfied with yourself or others. Rather it provides a healthy alertness of where you can improve. It will help you stay on the offense and thrive rather than playing defensively and merely surviving.
  • When you feel you are cruising to victory, take a look around … but not only at your opponents. Look for anyone, any team, who is the very best at what they do. Compare yourself to them. What are they doing that makes them bigger, faster, better, smarter than you? Studying those who might have better “game” than we do keeps us humble and focused on improving our own game.
  • Lead beyond the status quo. Always focus on the next level. If you can achieve your goals doing “business as usual,” then your goals are not big enough and you won’t get to the next level. Your goals should force changes, require tough decisions, and inspire bold actions.

The next time you are feeling comfortable, enjoy the moment … but for just a moment. Then, seize the very next moment to change!

Lemon’s to Lemonade

August 18, 10 by nschoychid

When was the last time you paused to enjoy life’s sweet moments? To savor the taste of a decadent dessert? To delight in the sound of a child’s laughter? To ignite a spark of creativity within another person? These simple pleasures add beauty to our lives.

In Lemons to Lemonade: Little Ways to Sweeten Up Life’s Sour Moments, Addie Johnson inspires us to find the hidden treasures all around us. Her lighthearted and spirited book, with its collection of stories, quotes, tips, and quips, contains the perfect ingredients for happiness. Today, may you be inspired to pause and discover the simple pleasures in your life.

Live Inspired,

Michelle Sedas

Host of the Inspired Living Café

Excerpted from Lemons to Lemonade: Little Ways to Sweeten Up Life’s Sour Moments by Addie Johnson

Simple Pleasures and Hidden Treasures

Happiness is all around us. We can’t create it and we can’t micromanage it. You can’t force yourself to be happier. You can only discover it. The best way I know to do that is to put yourself in the path of happy accidents by doing what you love with purpose and staying open and aware to the possibility of happiness beyond your wildest dreams. Too often we hide away the treasure of our own happiness as if there’s a limited supply, and we forget that life will bring plenty more for us if we only let it.

Seeing Anew

There are plenty of magic tricks and scientific studies that prove that if we expect to see something, that’s pretty much what we’ll see, even if it’s not really there. The same thing happens in our lives: we see the same thing every day, and we shut off the part of ourselves that’s on the lookout for the new and interesting, so sometimes we pass it by altogether. Can you vow to see something new every day?

“It isn’t what you have, or who you are,
or where you are, or what you are doing
that makes you happy or unhappy.
It is what you think about.”
~Dale Carnegie


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Be a Newsmaker

August 18, 10 by nschoychid

Good key messages are like slogans, taglines or mottos, only meatier.
~ Lorri Vaughter Allen

Be a Newsmaker Today’s quote comes to you from Be a Newsmaker: Master the Media with Clarity, Command & Credibility.

Lessons From the Geese

August 17, 10 by nschoychid

“The greatest accomplishments in life are not achieved by individuals alone, but by proactive people pulling together for a common good.”
~John J. Murphy

It’s easy for organizations to say, “We value teamwork.” However, saying it versus committing to the principles to grow it can be two different things. And that’s what Pulling Together is all about! Author John Murphy presents the ten rules for high performance teams in a way that every person in your organization can understand. John is a highly recognized author, speaker and management consultant who has helped some of the world’s leading organizations create environments that value and reward teamwork. Today, I’d like to share an excerpt from Pulling Together called Lessons From the Geese. Enjoy!

Please pass this along to others so that they, too, can be inspired to create high performance teams.

To Your Success,

Eric Harvey
Eric Harvey
Founder and President
WalkTheTalk.com

Pulling TogetherLearn More… Pulling Together

It’s easy for any organization to say….”we value teamwork.” However, saying it, versus committing to the principles to grow it, can be 2 different things. And that’s what Pulling Together is all about!

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Excerpted from Pulling Together: 10 Rules for High Performance Teamwork
by John J. Murphy
Lessons From the Geese

Consistent application of the 10 rules of high performance teamwork ultimately generates trust, respect, unity and power within any team. Conversely, consistent violation of any one rule destroys this bond. While the author of the following is unknown, “Lessons From the Geese” is a powerful illustration from nature of the rules of high performance teamwork. As you read about the natural unity that exists among this species remember — this same unity can exist in your organization!

As geese flap their wings, they create an uplift for the bird following. By flying in a V formation, the whole flock adds 71% greater flying range than if any bird were to fly alone. If we share a common direction and a sense of community, we can get where we are going more quickly and easily because we are traveling on the thrust of one another!

Whenever a goose falls out of formation, it suddenly feels the drag and resistance of trying to fly alone, and quickly gets back into formation to take advantage of the lifting power of the bird immediately in front. If we have as much sense as geese, we will stay in formation with those who are headed where we want to go, and we will be willing to accept their help as well as give ours to others.

When the lead goose gets tired, it rotates back into formation and another goose flies at the point position. If we take turns doing the hard tasks and sharing leadership as with the geese, we become interdependent with one another. The geese in formation honk from behind to encourage those up front to keep up their speed. If we “honk,” we need to make sure it is positive and encouraging.

When a goose gets sick or wounded or is shot down, two geese drop out of formation and follow it down to help and protect it. They stay with it until it is able to fly again or dies. They then launch out on their own, with another formation or catch up with the flock. If we have as much sense as geese, we too will stand by each other in difficult times, as well as when we are strong. Let us all try to fly in formation and remember to drop back to help those who might need it!

BEHOLD THE POWER OF TEAMWORK

The greatest accomplishments in life are not achieved by individuals alone, but by proactive people pulling together for a common good. Look behind every winner and you will find a great coach. Look out in front of every superstar and you will see a positive role model. Look alongside every great achiever and you will find caring people offering encouragement, support and able assistance. Rising to this level of interdependent thinking can be challenging and difficult. Looking beyond oneself, asking for help or accepting help can feel risky. But people are not given life to simply take from one another. We are here to give. Our mission in life is to offer our gifts to benefit one another, to create mutual gain in the world. This is called teamwork, a win/win mindset stemming from a genuine commitment to the rules that allow it to happen.

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Look Beyond Your Profession

August 16, 10 by nschoychid

Look beyond your profession. Consider pursuing developmental activities that have nothing to do with your job, but can help you grow as a person. You’ll probably be surprised to find that unrelated learning can positively impact
your job performance.
~ Eric Harvey

144 Ways to Walk The Talk Today’s quote comes to you from 144 Ways to Walk The Talk.

Gratitude is heaven itself

August 14, 10 by nschoychid

Gratitude is heaven itself.
~ William Blake

A Grateful Heart Today’s quote comes to you from A Grateful Heart: Daily Blessings for the Evening Meal from Buddha to The Beatles.

Engagement

August 13, 10 by nschoychid

Engagement comes from the combination of investing one’s passion and energies plus the trust that those energies will not be in vain.
~ Jeff Rogers

Office Sportz! Today’s quote comes to you from Office Sportz!: The Official Office Games Handbook.

Oh, Thank Goodness, It’s Not Just Me!

August 12, 10 by nschoychid
In overcoming fear and sharing our stories with others, we find the truth about who we really are—and discover that we’re not alone.
~ Lisa Hammond

Oh, Thank Goodness, It's Not Just Me! Today’s quote comes to you from Oh, Thank Goodness, It’s Not Just Me! Woman to Woman…Heart to Heart.
 

Are You Listening

August 12, 10 by nschoychid
 
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Hi Friends…If you were asked “Who taught you how to speak, read, and write?” you’d probably be able to list a whole series of people who helped you develop those important and much used communication skills. But what if the question was: “Who taught you how to listen?” If you’re like most people, the answer would be “no one.” That’s truly ironic because, on average, listening is the part of communication we engage in the most (40% listening, 35% speaking, 16% reading, 9% writing), and it’s the one for which we typically receive the least training. Therefore, it’s the form of communication that most of us are least proficient at … a critical leadership skill that too often is ignored.

So, why do we pay so little attention to listening? Two reasons: 1) We assume that because we hear well, we also listen well. But that’s not necessarily true. Hearing is the mechanical (physiological) function of receiving sounds. Listening, however, is an interpretive function which involves turning those sounds into meaning. The two are very different. 2) We see listening as a passive rather than active activity. And in today’s fast-pace, quick-fix, take charge business environment, being passive is viewed as being weak. But wrong again! Effective listening is an active process that requires skill, discipline, and practice.

What can you do to be become a better listener? Here are just four of the many simple and effective tips found in Say It Right – part of the Communicate for Success Passport 4 Pak:

  • Fight the urge to interrupt or finish a person’s sentence.
  • Tell yourself, “This is the most interesting thing I’ve ever heard!”
  • React with facial expressions, head nods, and posture to indicate you’re processing what you are being told.
  • Wait until the person finishes speaking, then say, “Here’s what I think you said.” Summarize. Then ask, “Did I get that right?”

Make a commitment to start trying these tips TODAY. They will make a positive difference for you. Are you listening?

Lead well … LEAD RIGHT

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Aim for Service

August 11, 10 by nschoychid
Aim for service and success will follow.
~ Albert Schweitzer

The Simple Truths of Service Today’s quote comes to you from The Simple Truths of Service: Inspired by Johnny the Bagger.
 
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